Maybe there’s no such thing as a “Calling”
You are the Universe, expressing itself as a Human for a little while. – Eckhart Tolle
I imagine that most people, if not all, have asked themselves at least once, “What’s my purpose?” or “What am I called to do with my life?” And I think most of us are conditioned to try and figure out what that “calling,” or purpose is. Discerning what we’re supposed to be or meant to do isn’t an easy task; it can bring about a lot of unease and anxiety if you haven’t figured it out yet. A few people know from childhood what their calling is. Others discover it along the way as they journey through life. And then, there are some who spend their whole lives searching and never stumble upon it.
Personally, I’ve struggled with figuring out what my calling is. The question, “What is my singular purpose in life?” has always plagued me, and I’ve thought about it countless of times, followed hunches, and embarked on a myriad of paths. And yet, I still don’t know the answer.
I had a recent conversation with my best friend who challenged me to consider that maybe there’s no such thing as a calling, and that maybe we’re here to live good lives, be good people. And that’s it.
I hadn’t really ever given much thought to that possibility, that there isn’t a “purpose” someone is put on this earth for. It’s a mind-jarring idea. And yet, it also makes a lot of sense.
Her perspective reminded me of the quote at the top of this post by Eckhart Tolle, “You are the Universe, expressing itself as a Human for a little while.” In other words, each person is an individual manifestation of the Universe, and through each individual the Universe has a different experience of the sights, smells, sounds, tastes, and textures of this world. For example, two people may hear the same piece of music, but for whatever reason I may be more emotionally moved by the high notes of the violin while another person will be more touched by the low notes of the bass. Experiences are subjective. Thus, the perspective the Universe experiences through me is different from the perspective the Universe experiences through you, and yet we are all wholly connected to that one, larger energy which is the Universe.
To put it simply, we are here to experience.
I’ve often found it to be the case that a tell-tale sign of a truth is how simply that truth can be expressed while simultaneously encompassing something very profound. Perhaps, this is one of those truths. And how incredibly freeing that truth is, knowing that each moment whatever I’m experiencing right now is exactly what I’m here to experience.
You are creation’s first and last chance…to be you. Just as you are today. That’s all you have to be. Bask. It’s more than enough.
– The Universe (from “Notes from the Universe” by Mike Dooley)